You're Still Showing Up


Hi Reader,

Some weeks are full. Some weeks are heavy. You still matter in both.

Let's talk about it.


Affirmation

Say it with me:

I can keep going, even when it’s imperfect. Rested or tired, I still belong here.

Because your presence matters more than your polish.


Story Time

No Audio. No Extras. Still Me.

If I’m honest, this newsletter almost didn’t go out.

Between life at home, everything happening in the world, and just plain tiredness… I thought maybe I should skip it.

But then I remembered:

The women I write to — you, the multi-hyphenate women building something bold and beautiful from real life?

You don’t need perfection. You need honesty.

So here’s what I’m bringing this week:
A reminder that your brand doesn’t have to be perfectly polished to be worth sharing.
It just has to be true.

And sometimes, truth sounds like:

  • “I’m here, but I’m tired.”
  • “I’m still going, just more slowly.”
  • “This is what I can give today...and that’s enough.”

It's still showing up, even when it's not ideal.

And not in a toxic way, but in a real, authentic way.

A way that makes room for humanity and creates a safe space for yourself and others.


Personal Brand Reflection

You're Still Building, Even on Quiet Days

Your brand is made in the in-between moments.
Not just in the launches, the polished content, or the hype.

Showing up with what you have — when you have it — is still consistency.
Choosing rest is
still intentional.
Being present is
still progress.

So if this week feels full, heavy, or tender?
You’re not behind.

Something to Try This Week:

Show up with what you have.

  • Repost something that still reflects your truth.
  • Share one sentence that’s been on your heart.
  • Or, don’t post at all and instead, pour into your offline life.

Whatever it is...
Let it be
enough.


See you in two Tuesdays,

Tamara Sykes

Baydian Girl

Caribbean-Born Brand Builder and Mom of Two. I help multi-hyphenate Black and Brown women create unforgettable brands and sustainable lives.

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